Parenting-N-Families

My wife & I are debating over the entertainment. My daughter will be a year old and there will only be 4 other children at the party, the oldest being 2. So, should I get a clown & magician?? I feel my daughter won’t even remember her first bday , so why go crazy?? what other alternatives do i have??

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I feel so stupid. & I knew it was coming last week, then for some reason I just completely forgot. I’m assuming he may be a little pissed off. There is really no excuse, because he always calls/texts on my bday. Keep in mind we don’t live in the same state so I can’t really take him out or anything. I have his gift sent already though. I’m a bad sister : (

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